one thing i pride myself in as a mother is listening to Lily. from day one i have paid close attention to her and have been in tune with her. i need to not forget this and listen to her instead of listening to everyone else when it comes to potty training. she is not 100% ready. some days she wants a diaper, some days she wants underwear. this is the way we are doing things. and i need to continue to listen to her.