according to my phone

around here

i cannot believe christmas, my birthday and the end of this year are all around the corner

today is Lilian’s last day of school until monday january 4th of 2021

today she leaves with William to west virginia until the 26th

she’s excited to see family and snow

lots of snow (think they have gotten over thirty inches this week?)

i look forward to seeing her on the 23rd when i drive to west virginia to spend christmas there all together like we have for most of Lilian’s life

happy friday friends

dark and gloomy mornings

breakfast adventures

rainbow maker making. lots of them in the shop

my most productive year as far as my art is concerned

post nutcracker celebration

a recent purchase by a local artist. it really spoke to me

slow moving sundays. our favorites

cold but sunny mornings

december. my birthday month. the one that brings out the most feelings. always

ballet view from the kitchen

i miss swimming. i miss many things these days

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it’s felt like a long week filled with lots of school work

this is crunch time before christmas break

looking forward to a chill weekend with Lilian and another week together

happy friday friends

my orchids are transitioning

clyde

george michael

the shop is full

gifts for Lilian’s teachers

golden december afternoon light

early morning chats

last tripod week until the new year

she ain’t no hollaback girl

afternoon walk view

those holiday, end of the year, winter blues

around here

december

the last month of this crazy pandemic twenty twenty year

my birthday month

i will be forty eight this month

forty eight

almost fifty

almost half a century

and holy shit if that’s not a mind fuck

not so much over the age as a number but age as time

more often than not, i don’t feel forty eight

i certainly never even thought about forty eight

there were plenty of times when i thought i wouldn’t make it to forty eight

either by careless living or self depressed doing

but here i am

constantly shedding layers and becoming who i am supposed to be

happy friday friends

a gloomy morning

a three color painting

the power of green. and sunshine

an afternoon walk

inspired by red lately

first day of december. first dusting of snow

lots of new goodies in the shop

a pigsgiving in my old neighborhood

a dressed moment for errands and a lunch date

memories of a 6 year old Lilian

excited to get her back today for two weeks

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Lilian and i…

we have had a wonderful week

so thankful for a super short school week (only monday and tuesday)

with no school and no after school activities this week, we were able to really catch up, snuggle, hang in, watch movies, have sleepovers….

we needed this

it never feels like enough time in a week with everything going on

so thankful for this break

hope you all had a great thanksgiving

lots to be thankful for during these crazy times we are living in

happy weekend friends

last saturday out and about in matching jumpsuits

painted a jumpsuit as a commission project

my reblooming orchid babies

got an area rug. have been wanting one for so long

beautiful late autumn skies

pod pajama day on the last day before thanksgiving break

pre thanksgiving hangs

post thanksgiving day breakfast

post thanksgiving day lunch

thanksgiving morning

migas

thanksgiving. together. thankful

around here

although sunny and beautiful, temperatures dropped this week and it was quite windy

as well as covid cases rising

making it perfect to just stay at home, paint, clean, reorganize, nest…

with the exception of a few outings, that’s exactly what i did

it felt like an extra long week without Lilian

but, it’s finally friday and she will be getting here before 4pm

happy weekend friends

home seen from the backyard

an afternoon walk with a favorite asheville friend

favorite color combo

food cravings

Sam and Kate

a sunny corner

a new couch

miami memories

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eleven!

she’s eleven…

and this is the last year in the school she has been in since kindergarten

middle school is next

it feels like a huge step

it’s all going so fast

and these days it feels like there is more time to be apart than time to be together

and that’s the hardest part…

eleven years ago

she had a great birthday party/sleepover with close girlfriends

biden/harris. the best present Lilian could have received

a mellow and tired sunday

early school morning snuggles

a common breakfast

a reblooming orchid

a tuesday doodle

me by Lilian

a no school pod day

winter is on its way and i am so not ready…

around here

it’s been a crazy election week

i early voted

for biden/harris of course

and now we wait as every vote is counted

because every vote counts

it’s heartbreaking how many red states there are

but i still have hope…

today is Lilian’s last day as a ten year old

she’s been with William all week and i miss her

tomorrow we will celebrate her with a little covid friendly party which will include a handful of friends

i cannot believe she is this grown already…

halloween 2020 was a great one

Lenore Osgood from Ratched

Lenore, Victoria and Frank n Furter

it was a quiet week without the pod and Lilian. and while the votes get counted, i kept busy at home cleaning and rearranging some things

the fuzzy chair is now in the “school” room. as well as a plant in the corner. i have struggled with this room the most but i am much happier with it now

with temperatures dropping into the thirties, i have also moved all the green babies indoors

this country feels more divided than ever…

trying to keep hopeful

when she turned four

one of her besties has severe food allergies. so this year, i ordered a vegan birthday cake as well as vegan cupcakes

was also a bit more social than usual this week. stepped out for dinner wednesday night with two girlfriends, lunch on thursday with three other girlfriends and dinner on thursday night with yet two other friends. felt great

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life

beautiful autumn days with the exception of tropical storm zeta passing through

it’s been a busy and long week

happy that it’s friday and that halloween is tomorrow but sad to not be with Lilian this coming week

bitter sweet friday

happy weekend friends

our voluntary tomato plant keeps on giving

this guy who is always super happy to see me

these two besties who don’t see nearly enough of each other

pod week

pod week art

while the girls pod upstairs, i pod downstairs

folley beach memories

los angeles bougainvillea memories

my brother turned forty

around here

it’s been the most beautiful autumn so far

chilly mornings, warm sunny days, pink dusk…

no complaints here

this autumn reminds me of the glorious one we had when we first moved here exactly five years ago

truly loving every day of it

just wish it wouldn’t turn into winter when it’s done…

did a little bit of this while in los angeles but need to get back to it

a favorite easy breakfast/brunch

before being apart for two weeks

the most beautiful card sent in the mail by a dear friend

her art

when mornings are chilly and gloomy and she doesn’t want to get out of bed

a saturday out and about in west asheville. our new neighborhood

a sunday apple and pumpkin picking out at grandad’s farm

a post school, pre dinner stroll

pink dusk

our pod. we are now three because one of them went out to colorado for skiing season

#mycaliforniadreamin2020trip

on october seventh i left asheville before six in the morning, drove an hour to greenville and flew out to los angeles

it had been three years since i had been out there

the last time i was there was for my birthday

this time around, i went for my dear Connie’s fiftieth birthday

it was a mellow covid/quarantine trip where we mostly just hung out at her house/yard/neighborhood

we went on a few drives, got to see and walk around griffith observatory, out to eat…

there was no shopping or a trip to go see the ocean like previous trips but i did get to go on long beautiful walks every morning

los angeles looked the worst i have ever seen it look

so many places still closed and boarded up, more homeless people living in tents and under tarps than i have ever seen anywhere else, people in corners completely out on drugs…. reminded me of nyc in the eighties before giuliani cleaned it up

it felt like the apocalypse

for the first time since moving to asheville, it felt good to return home from a trip somewhere

no desire to return any time too soon….

first lunch upon arrival. delicious mexican food

a beautiful california sunset with palm trees in the distance

first morning in silverlake

lots of morning walks

birthday party day

leftover birthday cake. probably the best i ever had

griffith observatory

until next time los angeles